Hi my name is Eric. I just want to start off by saying how deeply sorry I am for your loss. I can't even imagine what you're feeling. I know sometimes when dealing with great emotion it might be difficult to say something that might actually console a grieved relative or friend, but what I take solace is what the Holy Scriptures tell us about the future hope held out for our deceased loved ones. In Revelations 21:3,4 it speaks about a time when mourning and even death will be no more. Coupled with John 5:28,29- where Jesus himself speak about a resurrection and you can begin to see the awesome implications for your dear departed loved one. I hope these scriptures bring you measure of relief as they did me.